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Address someone by name, politely

さん after a name is a politeness ending, like 'Mr' or 'Ms' — never used about yourself.

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name + さん / くん / ちゃん~ san

Mr; Ms; -san (polite name suffix)

Attach さん to someone's name and you are being politely neutral: ゆきさん works for a classmate, a colleague or a stranger, with a given name or a family name. Two softer endings show up among friends and family: くん, usually to a boy or a younger male colleague, and ちゃん, affectionate, for small children and close friends. さま is the formal one you meet in shops and letters. The one rule you cannot break: never put any of them on your own name — say just わたしは ゆきです.

Tips and Common Traps

Maru· Common trap

さん is not the number three here. The number is also read "san" and written さん in kana — identical. Position is what tells them apart: after a name it is always the politeness ending.

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